How to Create a Budget without Breaking Down in Tears

by Lisa (RunningBear) on September 2, 2010

Man with head in handsRocket Scientists would never begin construction on a new booster rocket without a detailed set of design specifications. Yet most of us go blindly out into the world without an inkling of an idea about how we are spending our money. This is why having a budget is so important.

A budget is crucial to getting us to our desired financial goals, whether it is a home, a new car, retirement or an educational endeavor. Without it we will drift along in the sea of financial ambiguity, potentially ending up stuck on some distant reef well below our financial goals.

A budget is not a financial starvation diet and approaching it like it is will not work for the long haul. A budget is a well thought out plan in which you (and your partner) make reasonable monetary allocations for food, clothing, shelter, utilities and insurance, savings, entertainment and the occasional luxury item.

So let’s look at how to create a budget.

Calculate your expenses

Calculate all payments you are required to make each month. This will include credit card payments, gas, water, groceries, cable, Internet, car payments mortgage payments, and other monthly fees and dues. Now, add up the costs to get your total monthly expense. The total may vary depending on the month, like you may have a higher electric bill in the winter, but for the most part it will be about the same. Consider rounding up to the nearest ten dollars so that you have a little bit of a buffer in place.

Determine where you stand

Determine your household income by adding all up all monies received monthly. Once you have that total, compare it with the total you calculated from your expenses. This will let you know whether you have plenty of money to pay your bills, or not enough. If don’t have enough to pay your monthly bills, you need to increase your income or cut your spending.

Know your financial goals

Know exactly what your financial goals are, when you want to achieve them, and what it will take to do so. Depending on how much you save, you may need to adjust the time frame for achieving your goals.

Evaluate your spending

Keep track of every penny you spend for one month. Most likely, you will be shocked at what the itty-bitty expenses add up to. Take the total you spent on just one unnecessary item for the month, multiply it by 12 for months in a year and multiply the result by 5 to represent 5 years.

That is how much you could have saved AND drawn interest on in just five years. That is the exact reason why all of us need a budget. If we can get control of the small expenses that really don’t matter to the overall scheme of our lives, we can set ourselves up for financial success.

Cut your spending

Eliminate or limit unnecessary spending. For example, cutting what you spend on lunch from five dollars a day to three dollars a day on every work day in a five day work week saves $10 a week… $40 a month… $480 a year… $2400 in five years….plus interest–And you still get to eat lunch everyday. There are a lot of places to cut expenses if you look for them.

Follow your budget

The most important part of having a budget is following it. I can pretty much guarantee that it will be challenging in the beginning weeks, but fight the urge to stray. Save what you set out to save and spend what you set out to spend. It is only through this type of control will you reach your financial goals.

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4 Ways to Stress-Proof Your Life

by Lisa (RunningBear) on August 31, 2010

We all have this favorite expression when it comes to being stressed out. Mine is simply “I am so stressed out”. Stress happens when our lives become out of balance in some way—we are out of sync physically, mentally or emotionally. This imbalance can be caused by worrying too much, doing too much, having a pessimistic perception of the world or from pressure from work, family or friends.

Stress has the potential to affect your health. It can make you tired, sick, tense, irritable, scattered, unhappy or all of these things. If you want to live a healthy lifestyle, you [...] Continue Reading…

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How to Show Your Appreciation at Work

by Lisa (RunningBear) on August 30, 2010

As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them. Author JFK

This is the third and final article in the series 10 best ways to show your appreciation.

Who doesn’t like to be appreciated for their efforts in the office? I do! A thank you or a good job Lisa lets me know that I am meeting the expectations of my manager and that my manager values my contributions. It is even nicer when the recognition comes in front of others. There is something about other’s [...] Continue Reading…

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How to Appreciate Your Family and Friends

by Lisa (RunningBear) on August 27, 2010

“Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it” William Arthur Ward

This is the second post in the three part series profiling the 10 best ways to show your appreciation. We all have family and friends who have helped us in one way or another, and it is nice to show them that we appreciate the things that they do for us and the value that they have added to our lives.

So without waiting any further, let’s look at some ways you can do this.
Gratitude tip #2: Shower your sweetie with gratitude
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10 Best Ways to Show Your Appreciation

by Lisa (RunningBear) on August 25, 2010

If the sun rises, it’s a good day. – unknown

Each day, blessings come to us that make our life better in some way, if not today, then tomorrow or the next day. Some are obvious blessings like getting that job we always wanted while others we may take for granted like our ability to breathe.

This post begins a 3 part series in which I will present 10 ways that you can show gratitude to your friends, family, co-workers and bosses. I have broken it down into 3 parts to make the content more digestible.

Before we get into the meat [...] Continue Reading…

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